Valentine's Day Self-Care Ideas for Loving Yourself

Show yourself love this Valentine’s Day and treat yourself like you would a special person in your life. In this article, we’re sharing Valentine’s Day self-care ideas, from getting cozy with a rom-com to enjoying a relaxing at-home spa day. These simple ideas are all about Valentine’s Day self-love and taking time to slow down, recharge, and put yourself first.

Why Practice Self-Care on Valentine’s Day 

Whether you have a significant other or not, practicing Valentine’s Day self-care lets you appreciate and care for yourself. Valentine’s Day is a day for love, and the best way to love others is to take care of ourselves.

75% of Americans believe self-care relieves stress, and 71% say it improves happiness. What better way to show yourself love than doing something that makes you feel good? 

10 Valentines Day Self-Care Ideas

When deciding how to enjoy self-love on Valentine’s Day, consider activities that make you feel happy and taken care of. This might look like something fun or more relaxed, or a mix of both. 

1. Make a list of positive affirmations

It’s like Valentine's heart candies but better! Whether you need a mood boost or simply want to feel happy this Valentine’s Day, make a list of positive affirmations. 

Positive affirmations help you build yourself up, according to Psychologist Lauren Alexander, PhD. Alexander says to avoid toxic positivity and effectively practice positive affirmations by using ones that apply to your current situation. For example, if you’re spending Valentine’s Day alone, say, “Being alone lets me do activities I enjoy.”  

2. Make yourself a fun drink

Hydration is an easy way to show yourself some love, but make it fun for Valentine’s Day. Make a fun cocktail or mocktail, or keep it simple with rosé or champagne. You might enjoy your drink while relaxing or doing another fun self-care activity, like reading or hanging out with a friend.

We love to keep a fun drink chilled in Oakwell Cosmetics Stainless Steel Tumbler, which also makes for a great Valentine’s day for yourself or a loved one.

3. Enjoy a skincare routine

Take time this Valentine’s Day to love your skin with a skincare routine. This can be as simple as showering with a deep-cleansing body wash or a routine for face and skincare with your favorite facial products, a rejuvenating showering, and lathering up with a revitalizing body lotion.

4. Read a good book

If you enjoy reading, schedule a Valentine’s date with yourself to cuddle up with a good book. You might choose a fun romance novel, self-help book, or one you’ve already been reading. Not only can reading be enjoyable, but perfect for self-care since it can help with stress relief and better sleep. 

5. Create an at-home spa day

Enjoy multiple Valentine’s Day self-care ideas in one activity – an at-home spa day. Use this time for skincare, reading, and enjoying a delicious drink. Your spa day can also be a simple yet therapeutic warm bath. 

An at-home spa day is the perfect way to love yourself because it lets you spend quality time alone, unwind, and take care of yourself. Your spa day can be whatever you want it to be.

Some of our favorite relaxing bath products include: 

• Conditioning Hair Mask - a hair mask that hydrates and nourishes your hair
• Calming Bath Salts - a restorative blend of essential oils, herbs, and minerals
• Cedarwood & Amber Candle - a relaxing candle reminiscent of cozy days
• Waffle Bath Robe  - a comfortable, lightweight robe that’s adjustable for one-size-fits-most 

6. Do a new activity

If you’re looking for Valentine’s Day self-care ideas, this is the perfect opportunity to try something new. New activities and experiences help you avoid boredom, find enjoyment, and practice self-love.

Your Valentine’s Day activity can be something simple like visiting a new park or coffee shop, doing a DIY project, or preparing a new recipe.

7. Spend time with loved ones

If you don’t have a significant other to spend Valentine’s Day with and want to spend time with people you love, make plans with friends or family. Don’t let not having a partner stop you from surrounding yourself with people you enjoy being with. 

Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to make plans with your favorite people, especially those who may not have anyone else to spend the day with.

9. Write yourself a love letter

Who says you have to be in a relationship to write a love letter? This is the perfect Valentine’s Day self-love activity sure to make you smile.

Write a letter to the version of yourself you want to speak to — your present day self, yourself as a child, or to future you. In your letter, you might practice gratitude, show yourself love, or share goals.

9. Watch a cheesy rom-com

Watching a rom-com is a classic Valentine’s Day activity and one of the best ways to unwind and enjoy self-care. There isn’t much better than gathering your favorite snacks, getting cozy, and watching a cheesy rom-com.

Take it old school with Sixteen Candles, or try a new romedy comedy movie, like The Perfect Find.

10. Give yourself a gift

If presents are your love language, treat yourself with a gift. Gifts can be the perfect way to show self-love on Valentine’s Day, whether it’s something you’ve been wanting for a while or a gift to help you practice self-care, like an Oakwell Cosmetics spa gift box.

Valentine’s Day Self-Care: FAQs

Make the most of your Valentine’s Day with answers to common questions below.

How can I turn Valentine's into a self-care day?

A Valentine’s self-care day can include any activities that feel good for you. It might start with a slow morning and your favorite breakfast or coffee. Then, you can try a new activity, like visiting a park you’ve never been to or cooking a new recipe. End the day with a cozy night in watching a rom-com or reading a book, then wind down with a skincare routine to help you relax before bed.

How to treat yourself on Valentine's Day?

To treat yourself on Valentine’s Day, choose one or two things you don’t do often and feel excited about. This could be a DIY spa day, buying yourself a meaningful gift, or setting aside time for something that feels special to you. You can keep it simple or make a full day or evening out of it.

What to do on Valentine's Day by yourself?

Some of the best things to do by yourself on Valentine’s Day are an at-home spa day, movie night with takeout, or spending time outdoors. When choosing your solo activity, consider activities you enjoy or what you’ve been wanting to do.

Valentine’s Day Self-Care: Conclusion

We hope this article inspired you to create a special Valentine’s Day experience for yourself. Whether you spend a whole day showing yourself love or do a quick activity that brings you joy, everyone deserves to feel special on Valentine’s Day.